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SRA Stories: Tara Neider

2/11/2019

 
In 1983, Tara Neider graduated from MIT and found herself unable to find many masters rowing opportunities. She had rowed in college and it wasn’t until 18 years later that she hopped back in a boat. She stumbled upon a club in Annapolis, Maryland, then one in Belmont, North Carolina, and finally happened upon Sammamish Rowing Association (SRA) in August 2016 when she moved out here to work for Terrapower. When she was interviewing at Terrapower, she made a point of checking out SRA during her visit to make sure she would have a rowing opportunity in the area.
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Tara Neider enjoying the outdoors
Neider has stuck with rowing for several reasons, but one was particularly important. She said, “ I am a female engineer and until I started rowing again in 2001 I didn't have many female friends. I mostly work with men. I found that rowers are driven individuals that give their best no matter what they do.  I feel a very strong bond with other rowers and have found lifelong friends. When I joined the 5am program at SRA, the other women really made me feel at home. They erged with me, invited me to coffee (I row for coffee), and let me know what they were doing on their off days. I come back for the friendship and camaraderie.”

Not only did her rowing friends support her, but she found support through her family as well. When thinking back to one of her favorite rowing memories she thought of one that involved her kids, Mark and Kate. “The first year I joined the Annapolis Rowing Club, four of us formed a 4+ over the winter.  My friend Lisa told me that we had to form our own boat to be successful. Our first race was the Stonewall Regatta in Washington DC. My husband and my two children came to watch and we blew the other boats away. Afterwards my son said to me ‘I knew you rowed but I had no idea you were any good!’. It made me happy to be respected by my kids.”
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However, just a year after she joined SRA, Neider received some terrible news about her health. She was diagnosed with cancer and underwent surgery, radiation treatments, chemotherapy treatments, and now is on an Estrogen blocker. She was diagnosed in the early stages of her cancer, and she looked for several opinions on treatment plans- including asking fellow rower Tanya Wahl who is an Oncologist.
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Neider and SRA teammates receiving hard earned medals
Being a very healthy person- Tara just wanted to get through her diagnosis. She said, “I remember when I was diagnosed and just wanted to get it over with.  I didn't want it to mess up my life and I certainly didn't want it to keep me from rowing for long. I let Tom Woodman know and told him that I would like to keep rowing as much as I could recognizing that I probably wouldn't want to race.  Tom and the team were absolutely awesome! Malia Ansberry arranged for a meal plan where different people from the team brought me dinners twice a week through my chemotherapy treatments. I am probably the only person ever that gained weight during chemo.”
Neider didn’t want cancer to impact her rowing, but inevitably it often did. She explained, “During chemotherapy I found out that there was a very clear cycle to my well being. I felt good the day of treatment and the day after, then got worse over the rest of the week and then felt a bit better for the next two weeks until the cycle started again. So I took off on the really bad days, coxed on the not so great days and rowed on the better days. I really think that continuing practice helped me get through the treatments and also made it a lot easier to get back into shape.”

Rowing was a form of recovery for Neider, who found more than physical health benefits from it. She talked positively about the support she received from the team. “I got to row at the Row for the Cure Regatta before I started my treatments. The whole morning team had tattoos with my name and a badger (my spirit animal) on them. I really knew I was not in this alone. It was so wonderful. The team was really amazing, and I feel a little guilty because they helped so much.”
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Before going through her cancer diagnosis, Neider believed rowing to be a powerful tool. It taught her positivity, teamwork, determination, hard work, and the ability to push yourself through any situation. Now continuing the sport through her cancer- she feels those lessons have been amplified. Neider has advice for those struggling with their health and says, “Stay positive and don't feel sorry for yourself. Everyone has challenges. It is how you deal with them that makes you different. Plus exercise everyday if you can- maybe not what you could do before but something every day.”
Looking forward, Neider is just excited to keep being part of the team. “It is worth the effort to become part of a team like Sammamish. The 5 AM program seems to be growing and getting better and better. I want us all to push ourselves to a fantastic spring and fall season of racing.”
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To finish, Neider wanted to add one piece of advice that she learned during her cancer treatments. “What I learned through cancer is to allow people to be giving. I have always tried being self sufficient and I didn't think that people should be doing so much for me. After all I could make my own dinner or my husband could do it. But I realized that people want to help out and I am extremely grateful,” she reflected.
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Nedier's spirit animal is a badger, so her teammates put on these tattoos to support her
The SRA community is grateful for rowers like Tara Neider. We are a community of strong, supportive people who put people first. Our strength is not only demonstrated in our erg scores or pieces on the water, but also in the kindness and acceptance in our hearts. As we often say in rowing, “Eight hearts must beat as one or you don't have a crew. There are no fast boats, only fast crews."

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